Never make comparisons 

Comparison is the thing which people tend to do since the young generation until older people. It is the thing that people rarely to avoid even they have already known that it is not a really appropriate thing to commit. Some people compare their beauty with other, some compare between their intelligence, some would like to do this with their idea or opinions and some would even compare about their skill with other people. Well, if someone ask me myself that am I used to compare myself to other human being? I would say”absolutely yes” because I am also a human and that what human commit to do as I mentioned above already. I used to compare myself with other people a lot about what they have and I don’t. I was always thinking that why am I not like one of them? Why am I not handsome? Why am I not smart? Why am I not intelligent? Why am I not brave? Why am I not good enough? And why I didn’t get to like by people around me? These were the questions that I was asking myself when I made the comparisons between me and other people. And at that time what I got were all the negative answers which popped up on my head. What I was thinking at that time is like “because, I am ugly, I am shy, I have no ability, I am useless and so on.” These were what I got when I compare myself to the other. It seems like the more I compare, the more negative I am. Beside that, I was also feel disappointed sometime for being born as me myself. That’s was a really bad thing that I thought of myself at that period of time. One day, everything has been solved after a man wake me up by his word that” it’s because you always want to win other.” After this short of sentence, it seems like something woke me up from my unclear dream, a dream which I confuse with it for so long. I took a long deep breath and started to rethink again. “What do I gain from this comparison?” And there is not only answer that I can get, it was ”NOTHING”. I started to gather my attention again and try to think of the solution. Finally I found a very effective solution which is I need to start to live in my own life, and never compare myself to other people again. I see nothing help me when I compare myself with other people. So the best lesson here is that, if you realize that you are a person who is comparing yourself with the other or willing to commit it. Please stop, because there is nothing that you got from this type of action. All you should do is try to live with your own life, be happy, appreciate with what you have, try to improve it by your own ability and accept all the result whether it is worth with what you required or not. Just focus on your goal and do it with all your best, you need to remember that “Good things take time” so stop comparing yourself with other people and taking the action for your own goals.